I believe there is some part of us that never wants to solve a problem.It is an experience by itself.To be hurt and to tell of its story.
Do we all not want to be story tellers?
I am sure you can answer that for yourself.

I have made many mistakes in my life.And let it be noted that i write this at an age when I have not even experienced the world on my own two feet.
How many could I have made?, you may wonder.
It is not how many mistakes but how bad a mistake.
How deep it could have hurt and how much I have learnt.

I have seen for myself that God has always 'punished' me for my mistake in a way that I will remember forever.Hit me where it hurts the most, you can say.
Not because God is cruel, not because God is angry but because God is wise.
After all, is not God the greatest teacher of all.